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Support our mission to help people become parents and reclaim birth as ceremony.

Support the COYA Birth Centre—a sacred space where families are born.

Donate monthly. Impact generations.

Jacylin Rose Marie Poirier

If we engage all parents in the circle of care at birth, then we can prevent family violence before it begins. Your support helps build safe, loving communities from the very beginning.

If we engage all parents—not just birthing people—in the sacred circle of care at the moment of birth…

Then together, when families are most vulnerable and open to transformation, we can disrupt the intergenerational cycle of violence and restore gender equality by reviving Indigenous rites of passage ceremonies that see every gender as precious, powerful, and necessary to the thriving of a family and community.

Our project brings birth back to the village. In British Columbia, domestic violence remains an epidemic that disproportionately impacts women and children. Research shows the greatest window for preventing this violence is at the time of birth, yet modern systems isolate families, medicalize birth, and overlook the social transformation that becoming a parent demands.

We are rebuilding what colonization dismantled: extended family structures, cultural teachings, and shared responsibilities. Our Family Stewardship model trains and engages parents of all genders to become stewards of love, accountability, and resilience. Unlike typical doula or parenting programs that focus solely on the birther, we build an intentional circle of support, so each child is welcomed into a family ready to protect, guide, and grow with them.

This work is unique in its commitment to both gender equity and Indigenous resurgence. It should be supported because it’s not just about preventing harm—it’s about building a future where all families have the knowledge, strength, and community to raise children in love, together.

This Isn’t Just a Birth Centre—It’s Family Stewardship

Our Supporters

I believe that many professionals—coaches, counsellors, and those already supporting families in crisis would greatly benefit from access to the Family Stewardship prevention method.

The ability to proactively guide families through ceremonies, transitions, and healing processes is a critical missing component in traditional support structures. As an Executive Coach, CEO of Rewarding Relationships, and a Cultivating Safe Spaces Trainer, I am honoured to extend my full support for the Family Steward model.

Robyn Ward

CEO and Founder | Rewarding Relationships

Vice President | ICF Vancouver

Board Member | Animikii

Matriarch | Sage Initiative

Volunteer Counsellor | Esquimalt Neighbourhood House

We recognize the importance of holistic and culturally-rooted birthwork in strengthening family bonds

and mitigating the stressors that can arise during the transition to parenthood. As research has shown, the postpartum period presents significant challenges for couples, and the presence of structured support systems can make a crucial difference in the well-being of both birthers and their partners.

We believe that this partnership has the potential to create lasting change by demonstrating the critical role of partner inclusion in birth and postpartum care. We commend your dedication to this work and look forward to contributing to the shared goal of fostering thriving families.

Dr. Erica Woodin

Director, Healthy Relationships Lab

Professor, Department of Psychology, University of Victoria

Birth is a ceremony. You can help reclaim it.

you are the village we need, here’s how you can help:

4% Cover the Fee

Accessible, ceremonial, and rooted in legacy — this donation page offers one-time, weekly, or monthly giving options.

We believe we are not just products of our circumstances, but consequences of our actions.

This birth centre is our action.

Your gift is yours.

Why give?

  • 25 People Trained as Family Stewards using circle-based Indigenous knowledge-sharing

  • 500 Hopeful, Expecting, Fostering, Adopting, and Blending People Become Parents in Community

  • The University of Victoria’s Healthy Relationships Lab offers training and longitudinal research to reduce domestic violence and divorce through communication skills

  • Birth workers, counsellors, and coaches are supported by Family Stewards offering safe, meaningful, and gainful employment in Birth Centres

  • Potential reach: 25 Family Stewards x 10 families x ~5 family members each = 1,250 people in our village

  • 250 births are reclaimed as ceremony

    500 people make rites of passages

  • A birth centre is born in the centre of it all.

  • It Needs $5 Million Acts of Love.

We can raise $5 Million Together

If we engage all parents in the circle of care at birth, then we can prevent family violence before it begins.

Your support helps restore Indigenous family systems, honour all genders as vital, and build safe, loving communities from the very beginning.

Let’s Build the Birth Centre we need at the Centre of if it all.

4% Cover the Fee

Accessible, ceremonial, and rooted in legacy — this donation page offers one-time, weekly, or monthly giving options.

What’s the consequences of my donation?

  • Supports the creation of a welcome kit for one birthing family (tea, blanket, coya affirmation card, resource list).

    • Outcome: Families feel seen and supported right away.

  • Covers one seat in a Becoming Parents Circle for a family.

    • Outcome: Ongoing peer support that builds parental confidence and interdependence.

  • Funds sacred birthing room supplies (LED candles, herbal compresses, privacy curtains).

    • Outcome: Every family is treated with reverence and care, reinforcing birth as ceremony.

  • Funds one full rites of passage ceremony for a person becoming a parent

    • Outcome: Persons transition to parenthood is claimed, understood, and acted upon

  • Subsidizes The Full 10 Sessions Becoming Parents Program for people not fully funded.

    • Outcome: No family turned away due to funding gaps; culturally aligned support is prioritized.

  • Supports postpartum support like in-home visits, meal drop-offs, or baby needs kits.

    • Outcome: Strengthens fourth-trimester bonding and wellbeing.

  • Funds construction or operational costs of the COYA Birth Centre.

    • Outcome: A permanent home for safe, supported, and ceremonial birth.

  • Funds innovation, evaluation, and the scaling of the Family Stewards model.

    • Outcome: Transformational impact, systems change, and multigenerational wellness.

Together, we can create a place where every birth is sacred.

And no family is scared when they find out they’re going to become parents.